Spending your entire life being married to a close-minded person can be a nightmare. He will restrain you from doing all the normal things just because he is afraid of something or he does not trust you. This negativity can seriously affect your life and you may regret marrying him. Dump him before your life turns into hell because of him.
Hating animals is not the same as being afraid of them or not having a pet. Hating them without any particular reason such as allergy might even make him choose between him and you pet. Lack of fondness to animals is fine but wanting to be away from them as much as possible shows lack of empathy. And lack of empathy is a clear sign he is a cruel man.
3.The relationship rules mean nothing to him
If he likes to play wild or tell you not to do something and then does that later, means he disrespects you and the rules of your relationship. Every relationship has rules that should be followed by both partners. If he does not follow them and expects that from you, he is not worth marrying. This shows great disrespect and he should never be given a second chance.
Minor mistakes from time to time are perfectly fine, but if they happen too often and if they affect you a lot, it is a red sign. If he constantly breaks the promises he made it means he is making a fool of you. Try to find another man who will keep their promises.
5.Gives you secondary treatment
If one partner in a relationship gives a lot more than the other, the relationship will start to fall apart because it lacks mutual sharing and receiving. If you are doing your best while he does nothing at all and it does not bother him, you don’t mean to him what he means to you.
6.Doesn’t have moments of epiphany
If he is always sure in his decisions and actions and he never thinks he is wrong, he needs a reality check. Forcing someone to change for you is cruel and you should never do it. However, helping them realize his mistakes is very beneficial for your relationship. If he refuses to accept he was wrong and he never doubts the things he does, this behavior can also be negative for you in the future.
Excuses are only used when you want to tell someone that they had something better and more important to do than you. Also, if his excuses are too senseless to be true, he is probably lying or he feels lazy to include you more in his life.
8.Keeps the fights alive
Fights are a normal and healthy part of a relationship but only if they end. Sharing your opinions with your partner when you have a disagreement can help you learn about their point of view. But if he never settles on a decision or he does not allow you to keep your opinion, he might not respect you as a person. Keeping the fights alive is a clear sign that he does not care about your feelings and your future together.
9.Kills the conversations
He might be a talker, but when it comes to listening he will cut you won and kill the conversation. This is not just lack of conversation skills; it also shows his indifference to the things you want to say. Do you want to be ignored like this by your future husband? I guess no, so obviously he is not the one you should marry.
Lies are never excusable or justifiable because they can harm the relationship and you may lose your trust in him forever. A healthy relationship is the one where both partners believe in each other and they trust each other. If he breaks this rule he damages your connection and it may never be repaired.
If he acts like a child and depends on you 24/7 you may end up feeling exhausted. This kind of behavior comes from the insecurity he feels and the lack of trust in your actions. A mature relationship, on the other hand, is a relationship between two mature people that know they can be away from each other and live their busy lives without doubt.
Our parents can sometimes make us so angry and annoyed, but we can never cut them off our lives for any reason. These are the people that raised us and love us the most, so if he wants you to avoid them, he is the one you should cut off.
Smoking is an addiction which is very difficult to quit. But if he does not even try to quit regardless of how many times you have asked him to, it means she does not appreciate you and you don’t have a special place in his life and heart. It also shows lack of emotion which is not something you want in your future husband.
14.Immature in his affairs
It can be related to any relationship whether it is friendship, family or coworkers. If he throws people off due to minor fights, he might do the same thing to you sometimes. You don’t want to be with such an impatient person.
No matter how charming or kind he is most of the time, if he is abusive verbally or physically he is actually showing his violent nature. Marrying a violent man is one of the biggest mistakes you can make in your life. So, try to think about it thoroughly before jumping into something you might not be able to get out of.