Noticing that your man has lost interest in you does not require a lot of skills. You can find out by paying attention to his gestures, attitude and body-language which can reveal a lot about his feelings. Here are some of the things that can help you find out whether he has lost interest in you.
1. His time and efforts are inconsistent
One day he puts you on a pedestal, and the other day like you are the last things on his mind. Not having a clear vision about what he wants with you is one of the signs he is probably not interested anymore.
2. He takes too long to reply to your texts
This might be a trivial issue but it can tell a lot about his feelings. If he used to respond immediately and nowadays it takes him hours to call or text you back, he might not feel you are a priority in his life.
3. He doesn’t want to meet you alone
If he is not interested in spending alone time with you, he might not be interested in you as well. If he only likes spending time with you if there are other people around, you need to reconsider your choices with this person.
4. He can’t define a relationship
Sometimes in a relationship a woman feels the need to ask her partner what their love means to him. If he tries to change the subject or gives you illogical answers, he probably wants to avoid confronting you and being open about his true feelings.
5. He behaves the same with you and with other girls
If he treats other women just like he treats you, there is something wrong in your relationship. Considering your partner as your friend is a good thing, but not if you always behave with them that way.
6. You are the one who makes the plans
He agrees to do everything you suggest, but he rarely or even never takes initiative. If your partner is not willing to do anything to surprise you, you are probably lower on his priority list than you think you are.
7. He is not ready yet
When in a serious relationship you need to discuss serious matters as well. But if he refuses to do so with the excuse he is not ready yet, he might never even be ready.
8. You don’t exist for him on social media
Social media plays an important role in our lives nowadays and we often want to post pictures with our partners to show our happiness. Being inactive on social media in general is one thing, but being inactive only for your partner means there is something wrong.
9. He hides things from you
Lack of trust can have devastating effect on your relationship. If you caught your partner hiding something from you or lying you often, he either stopped trusting you or he is doing something that might hurt you.