Our words matter and it is especially important what we say to our partner because it can determine which path our relationship will take. Many people think the only things we need to tell our partner is “I love you” or “I miss you”, however once your relationship matures you will start to think about and discuss other important things.
1.I remembered you during the day
Telling this to your partner will make them very happy, appreciated and special. Especially if they know how busy you are during the day, you will let them know that you have them on your mind even when you are not together.
2.How are you feeling?
Asking this question to your partner is very important because it will show them we care about their health and wellbeing. It is also very good to ask it before starting a deep conversation just to make sure your partner is feeling well. Our partners usually don’t tell us when they have minor health issues to avoid worrying us, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ask.
Gratitude is an extremely important part of a relationship that you should show as often as you can. Never take your partner for granted no matter how long you have been together. In fact, you can always thank them for their patience towards you and for their time they spend with you. Remember, it is not their obligation to be with you, they chose you.
4.You look beautiful
You should praise your lover and make them feel loved, special and wanted and one of the best ways to do this is by acknowledging the slight changes in their appearance. This will show them that you are not bored of them and that you pay attention.
5.I pick you
Reminding your partner that you have chosen them for life, is adorable and will definitely make them happy. Let them know you will be there through both bad and good days and you will never forget why you picked them.
6.So this happened today …
Let them know about your day, and keep them involved. They are interested in how you feel and what happened and they should be the one who knows everything about you. Sharing details about your day will make your partner feel valued and important.
7.I often think of that day when …
Talking about beautiful memories you have together is heartwarming. It will make you feel closer and the intimacy will grow. You will show your partner that you remember and you appreciate the good experiences you had together. Talk about your first date and how much you have grown together.