Being an option in a relationship is something no one wants. It may be hard to realize, however there are signs that can help you see whether your partner considers you a part of his future or not. Some signs might be mistaken for something else, however the presence of most of the following signs can be a warning that you should end your relationship.
Here are 15 signs that you are not his priority, rather just an option
1.He never wants to make future plans in advance
2.You are the only one willing to compromise in the relationship
3.You feel like you are always the one waiting for him, and if you ask him to wait for you he refuses
4.He is seeing other people and makes sure you are aware that you are not the only one
5.You never go out together
6.When you confront them, he tries to manipulate you for a while using sweet words, but he returns to his past behavior quickly
7.He never responds to your calls or texts even though you know he saw it
8.You feel like he is taking advantage of you. Your intuition rarely makes mistakes, and if you start feeling like he doesn’t really care for you, it means that he does nothing to make you feel appreciated
9.He always uses excuses why you can’t be together. Even though there are often obstacles in relationships, when there is a will there is always a way. If he doesn’t bother to try it means he is not sharing the same interest in your relationship
10.He never shows interest in your everyday life, and if you share something he rarely remembers hearing about it
11.He often lies about things that seem insignificant, but are actually much more important than he may be telling you
12.You feel like he is bored when you are together
13.He always seems like he is hiding something
14.He doesn’t understand the things you really care about and often cancels plans at the last minute for your big events
15.He makes you feel miserable, bad, depressed and unhappy more than he makes you feel happy
Even though everyone makes mistakes, it is very important to know when it is time to let go and stop forgiving. Mutual respect and understanding is the basis to every relationship, and the lack of them can be a major red flag that it is time to end your relationship.